Accept One another

Why is it that as "Soldiers of the Cross" we are the one army who wound their own? Why are we not focused on battling Satan and the evil powers of this world and so wrapped up in spewing hurt and cutting remarks at each other? It's no wonder the world sees Christians as hypocrites. We are commanded to "accept one another,just as Christ also accepted us to the glory of God." Last I remember, when Christ accepted me I was full of ugly sin,imperfection and in need of His mercy and grace. Why do we not then accept others who are in the same condition? It breaks my heart to see "Christians" cutting each other apart over personal opinions. Pride seems to come into play a lot. I know personally I am very self centered. I am constantly fighting self absorbed thoughts and self righteousness. Hold my tongue Lord!!